If egregious grammar errors appear in a television show, novel, or newspaper article it does annoy me. Sometimes I make quick assumptions about people on social media who use would of instead of would have, particularly if their argument is also weak or false. But then I always remind myself that not everyone has access to good education or good teachers and some people are dyslectic. A surprisingly large number of people are functionally illiterate through no fault of their own, and even more are non-native speakers. And then I feel a little ashamed of myself for judging the language of total strangers whose story I do not know. A language that is constantly evolving and probably leaving me behind. What I think is a grammar issue could be a neologism. I am awful at mathematics, as are many people who are good at languages. And no one makes me feel bad or stupid about that. So I wouldn't say my heart rate increases at grammar issues. It does increase sometimes these days when I read the news though...
The only time I ever correct someone's grammar is in class, or if it is in a private situation and someone has asked me to correct them. If someone makes a potentially embarrassing mistake during a personal conversation, I tend to reply using the correct word so that I don't correct them outright, but they will know the word for future reference. For example if someone says 'we have lots of whores on our farm' , I would reply 'oh I love horses! What kind of horses do you have?' .... and hope that they don't ACTUALLY have whores on their farm.
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